SPC: The Good Girl Tax
Empowering women to rise, without becoming someone else to do it I used to say yes to every request, terrified of not being liked. I’d stretch myself thin for friends, family, and even for the neighbor living 2 blocks away who wanted me to mentor her son. I spent countless hours pouring into people who never gave me a second thought, much less a thank you. All I have to show for it is quiet resentment and a lingering feeling of being used. Eventually, I realized this wasn’t a me-problem. It...
5 months ago • 2 min readSPC: The Rest Era
💬 The Intentional Drop: From me to you The more I heal the less ambitious I become. Like everyone else I read the super viral article on Substack sometime last year and haven’t been able to stop thinking about it since. I was 16 when I first stumbled upon girl boss hustle culture and was instantly enamored with the aesthetic. Working hard became my personality, something I could control in a world where I couldn’t control much. I ignored any and every sign that I was burned out, leading to...
5 months ago • 2 min readSPC: I Want It All
💬 The Intentional Drop: From me to you I was listening to a podcast this week when I heard a quote that stuck with me: “women can have it all, just not all at once.” I’m a woman who wants it all. I want the fairytale romance and perfect marital bliss. I want a successful and fulfilling career where I feel like a corporate baddie. I want to be the perfect mom, with the perfect life and I want all of those things to feel effortless. This week I went somewhat viral when I shared how I got laid...
9 months ago • 2 min readSPL: What If It Works?
💬 The Intentional Drop: From me to you I started posting on TikTok in September 2023. It felt like a huge risk, and I had so many fears. I was scared my peers would find my silly little videos and think I was cringe. I was scared my job would find out and the carefully curated professional persona I’d spent years building would fall apart. I was scared I’d mess up, go viral for the wrong reason, and the internet would never forget. Almost two years later, I can confidently say: posting on...
9 months ago • 2 min readSPL: Design Your Dream Life
💬 The Intentional Drop: From me to you Over the last five years, I’ve gained something I never had before: confidence rooted in action. I’ve always been a dreamer. A Pinterest-board-maker lost in a million daydreams. But it wasn’t until I actually started doing—posting the thing, pitching myself, taking big bets—that I realized how powerful life feels when you move with intention. This newsletter is a space to empower you to do the same. I want to help you build a life you’re proud of—not...
10 months ago • 2 min read